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I was in a 3 year relationship.The breakup was mutual and we have been good friends for the past three months, but now I find myself become sad and bitter, mainly because she is now talking to someone of interest. How can I get over her and my feelings? I feel so stupid for being sad and crying...does anyone have any remedies? Should I limit my communication and visits with her?
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msnekole
on January 4, 2010
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February 16, 2010
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Breaking up is never easy even if it is mutual. There is a reason why you two are not together... I would personally start putting yourself first.. when you do that, it becomes easier not to focus on the person you are trying to get over.
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January 5, 2011
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Because the break up was mutual it's possible you really allowed yourself to move on and only now as someone new is on the scene you feel differently. I feel strongly that you should allow yourself to feel upset for a period of time as it clearly needs to come out of your system. Try to focus on other things and be happy that she is happy. No one can plan when they are going to like someone new, things just happen, it may only be temporary. Please dont make her feel bad for this. try to keep your communication and visits as normal as possible obviously allowing her time to live her life too. I am great friends with a few ex's some I have needed space apart from, some I havent, Bad or mutual break ups, but time is a healer and if your friendship beyond the relationship is meant to be then it will be there. :o)
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May 5, 2011
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dont speak or see her for a while, me and my ex broke up two months ago,and we tried bein friends in tht time,but to be honest it just made everything a whole lot worse,so i decided to not speak to her anymore and its helping,im still in the process of gettin over her,but im a lot more happier than i use to be and try getting someone new because that ALWAYS helps x
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April 8, 2011
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i think its best not to see an ex as its easier to move on and get over somebody when you no longer have contact with that person anymore. i been with my girlfriend 4 months but shes still intouch with one ex but im not in touch with mine x
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March 12, 2010
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It depends on yourself,if you can be better without her just do it ,but if u always missing her ,be friends,time will changing everthing..
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January 5, 2011
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Because the break up was mutual it's possible you really allowed yourself to move on and only now as someone new is on the scene you feel differently. I feel strongly that you should allow yourself to feel upset for a period of time as it clearly needs to come out of your system. Try to focus on other things and be happy that she is happy. No one can plan when they are going to like someone new, things just happen, it may only be temporary. Please dont make her feel bad for this. try to keep your communication and visits as normal as possible obviously allowing her time to live her life too. I am great friends with a few ex's some I have needed space apart from, some I havent, Bad or mutual break ups, but time is a healer and if your friendship beyond the relationship is meant to be then it will be there. :o)
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