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i'm in love with a girl, who only considers me a friend.i found out that she has known that i'm a les long ago. should I just stay friend with her? or what should I do in this situation?

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October 31, 2009
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imconfuse's answer        1 0
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I don't even know what to say. i'm in the same situation just like her and the worse of all, even I am now is getting about self-confuse to myself. I'm total lost


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I would just be here friend. If she's known about you for a while and she had any feelings in the same way I think she would have acted on them. This way you want ruin a good friendship.


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My advice to BOTH girls who are in love with their friends, they have both been told that the other girl considers them only a friend. The one that was told by her friend that she knew she was a lesbian long ago, is saying, if I wanted a serious relationship with you, I would have approached you long ago. To the girl with the bisexual friend who has already told you she sees you only as a friend, live with it. And don't confuse being "in love" with someone, with having special feelings. Without the relationships working both ways, real love is almost impossible. Both of you need to grow up and move on, concentrating your efforts on people that are available to you as lovers, not just friends.


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My advice to BOTH girls who are in love with their friends, they have both been told that the other girl considers them only a friend. The one that was told by her friend that she knew she was a lesbian long ago, is saying, if I wanted a serious relationship with you, I would have approached you long ago. To the girl with the bisexual friend who has already told you she sees you only as a friend, live with it. And don't confuse being "in love" with someone, with having special feelings. Without the relationships working both ways, real love is almost impossible. Both of you need to grow up and move on, concentrating your efforts on people that are available to you as lovers, not just friends.


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DeboG143's answer        1 0
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i think the best advice i can give u is to tell her exactly how u feel and take the outcome as is. if you feel u can still be her friend and putting the the fact that u love her aside then go for it. but if its too hard now that u know for sure that ur in love with her and u cant stand the fact of the person u love possibly talking to other people then i think the choice is urs to make. everything u do in life has a consequence but its ur choice to pick which outcome u'd perfer. u know?

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