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I need advice on pleasing my partner. I am a 35 year old female with a 32 year old female partner. We have been together for almost 6 months and it has been wonderful yet scary at the same time. It was my coming out time for the family and nobody has been happy, but when we are together, all is well. My only problem is that my partner has not achieved climax ever since our first time together. When she first told me this, it devastated me - she did not fake it, but seemed to enjoy everything so much that I thought she was climaxing. I was wrong and now this is starting to put a strain on me and the relationship. She wishes she had never said anything to me and I feel ashamed to be letting her down. For me, if she so much as touches me I melt - she says that she feels very little, almost like pressure. We are not sure if it is medical or psychological, but it is starting to interfere with our relationship. Any advice on how to do this right? Please, no smart comments, just real advice.
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pleasing her
well i can say one or two things and not try to be smart about it...............it's all about getting the mood right.
like time of the day and stuffs, kind of music that gets her freak on, some sexy food..if that works for u both and little places that makes her go gaga and try not to get too concious of pleasing her..just take it slow and please her were she moans the most..see it if works
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psychological
It is most likely psychological on her part. You could try adding sex games or massage into your sex life. Since you gals are willing to talk about it ask her what turns her on the most and then start with that. It may be that there isn't anything specific that you can do to help her, she may have to seek help from a sex therapist but she can only do this when she is ready. You have to learn to live with doing the best you can for her or it will break up your relationship. It's just sex, there are many other parts to a relationship.
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been there...
1st off .... she loves you! shes been with you the whole time and she loves you enough to tell you!
2nd ... set ur feeling aside and ask her what SHE likes, like my grl wasnt use to a tongue moving fast lol she likes it slow. [example] LOL xD!
3rd ... after you study ur grl , you should set the mood. pick a day ur gonna MAKE LOVE, buy anything and everything to sweep her off her feet. make dinner , give her message , bubble bath whatever! and what makes sexy is YOU , dont b shy !! any questions message me k!
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want to find myself
hi freinds need ur suggestion. I m in a relationship with a girl for last 11 yrs. everthing was going good but since last 3 years thers a guy in my off who said i love u. i m nt in that relationship as i knw i m commited to my love. but i like to chat with tht guy too n dnt wanted to break our frndship. in between i thought tht i m generating sum feeling for tht guy n i discussed the same wth my gf. thr were problems in between bt now i feel i m out wth tht feeling wth tht guy n wantd to be a just frnd wth him bt my gf is nt comfortable abt the same. she says i shud stop tlkg to him n nt keep ne relationship wth tht guy. bt i work in same off n i feel wen v try to avoid sumbdy ur feelings get more to tht person. dnt want to hurt my gf i love her lot. pls suggest.
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help me
please tell me the thin that can be use as a toy when we play as lesbian
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