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posted by chachipete on June 23, 2009

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HELP!!!

my partner has been friends with her sisters ex-partner. she knows this gal has a crush on her but insists on keeping a friendship and hanging out with her.this girl has asked her on a few occassions to go do "friendly" outings. i have been told i HAVE to accept this or move on. please help? i feel its disrespectful to me and to our relationship.

posted by Mick on June 25, 2009

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Seems to me that your feelings are being ignored on this. If you have to be told "you HAVE to accept it or move on"....I just have to go hmmmm. Who is telling you this? Your partner or her sisters ex-partner. I'm hoping I know the answer, but I'd rather not assume.
Either way, it is an insult to YOU!

posted by JosyC on October 6, 2009

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Help!!!

I am sorry to hear about this. It must be very hurtful to you. It's called "my way or the highway." It's time to decide which would be better for you..leaving or staying. Good luck.

Josy

posted by JJ121909 on January 9, 2010

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HELP I'm in TX

i want to meet a decent girl who won't screw with my head. i'm honest, affectionate, intelligent, sensitive, a great listener, and love to be romantic. i want someone i can have a true connection with. i value compassion and intelligence more than looks. i don't like liars or fake people. i'm very perceptive and could probably tell u what you're thinking...email me cardinals1219@gmail.com

posted by sexywhitechocolate on January 28, 2010

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Honestly someone who gives you an either or situation usally has something else in mind.....I would say take the high way and find someone that is less self centered.............Good Luck

J

posted by bubbie21 on February 14, 2010

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Me too

I have personally been in a relationship for 20 years that has always been somewhat one sided. Her side. Because I love her I chose to stick it out through thick and thin. I wouldn't suggest it for everyone though. What you said sounds like me to a tee and now I am in a situation where I couldn't leave even if I wanted to. Life has played some pretty cruel jokes and my partner is and has been for several years physically and mentally injured and even though I would love to have a life I'm stuck. I would never leave her like this. So do yourself a favor and reevaluate your situation before you end up like me.

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