Don't jump into a new relationship without thinking throw what you have now with your wife.I know me and my girl go throw a lot of up and downs, but I always stop and think what we can do to make our relationship explode once again. I can't say I still don't feel life has more to offer but I have it all at home if I just believe in our love.So try to recapture what you once had before you wonder off on a new relationship and end up at this point once again.