my personal opinion? honesty, and having more than one thing in common...okay, maybe only one thing. still, if you aren't honest with someone at the beginning of the relationship it won't grow beyond that point and if it doesn't grow beyond that point it cannot be good. ever. so yeah, honesty, having something in common is just to avoid akward silences. ;)

posted by Kory on October 23, 2008     0 comments
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well for me.
i cut my ex's off, and find sum1 new.
reboundz always help =]

posted by BitterSweet69 on January 29, 2010     0 comments
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I always say things like well what does you boyfriend think of that? *about the subject youre talking* Well if she isnt into boys she will surely let you know! On the other hand just use your gaydar!

posted by zizou on October 20, 2009     0 comments
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A great relationship is based off of friendship. What do you want? I would hope that if you are married you are both friends. Am I missing something here? Please explain I'm curious. I would say before you go looking outside your marriage look inside of it first. Its good the "other woman" has enough integrity not to get involved this is an admirable trait.

posted by jusdoinme on July 19, 2010     0 comments
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It depends on what constitutes satisfaction and what it is the attraction between the two of you.

posted by GrandSlam7NT on June 13, 2010     0 comments
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YES I HAVE BEEN THERE BUT YOU WILL NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN BUT THEN AGAIN IT WOULDNT MAKE YOU A LESBIAN THAT WOULD MAKE YOU BISEXUAL IF YOU STILL HAVE INTERESTS IN GUYS SO ITS ALL IN HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOU ARE WITH A WOMAN ITS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE FOR ME AND I LOVE WOMEN I JUST HAPPEN TO BE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH WOMEN THAN MEN AND I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT A WOMAN ITS ALL IN WHAT YOU WANT WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY GOOD LUCK ON YOUR SEARCH :-)

posted by LOVELYLEZ90047 on December 4, 2008     0 comments
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wut did u do?lol

posted by BitterSweet69 on January 30, 2010     0 comments
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I'll speak from your girls' end. I actually only have straight guys as friends, it has nothing to do with attraction, i love women. I've been with my gf for almost four years and i swear she would be the last woman if we ended. Its nothing about being attracted to men, its just personality wise your girl may get along better. With me, i don't get alone with straight girls and lesbians seem to end up developing feelings. If she says she loves you, than she loves you. Questioning that will only jeopordize what could be. (:

posted by Lesbihonestt on July 31, 2011     0 comments
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and I was the one who talked her into staying and trying to work things out. When summer came I was scheduled to go on a family vacation on which I would have very little cell or internet service. We had talked about how much we had come to mean to each other and how much we were going to miss the other. While on the trip the separation was unbearable. When I was able to get service of any kind I would spend it talking to her. Toward the end of the trip she called me and after an hour was able to get me to admit that I was having more than friendly feelings for me. She was also feeling the same way. After I was back it only took two weeks of being on the phone all the time for us to say ‘I love you’. We made a plan to meet up on neutral ground to see if what we were feeling was real. It was. I was head over hills in love with my best friend and she felt the same way. A few weeks later she came to spend a week with me and things were perfect. There was talk of her leaving and moving in with me. When she left I was lost all I wanted was to have her with me. Before anything happened between us we had planned for me to spend a week at their house and again, even though we had to play things off, they were still perfect. When I left I couldn’t even hug her because I knew I was leaving my heart with her. A month after that the ‘wife’ ended things saying that she wasn’t in love with her any more, this threw her into a tail spin. That was 3 months ago. We have gone back and forth over the course of those months with her even spending 2 weeks at my house, and I even took her home to meet my family. During that time there were breaks between us with her telling me that she was in a bad place and for her to deal with everything she didn’t have room to think about me. Somehow we would always end up together though. Now she has closed herself off from me and everyone else in her life, tired to kill herself and told me that her ‘wife’ would always have her heart and that there could never be an ‘us’ and even if she makes it through this she is sure she never wants to have a relationship again. I know I should have never gotten involved with her and my heartache is my own fault but I always say you can’t help who you fall in love with. Now that I have laid all my dirty laundry out for the world to see, does anyone have any advice?

posted by CoCoKeN on November 19, 2010     0 comments
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Just tell them that you're bisexual!

posted by SweetBabyLor on September 25, 2009     0 comments
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